Give
an Erotic Massage
A massage is a terrific way to
express love, to get close physically, and to progress to the
next level of sexual satisfaction. Since the Erogenous Zones
are all over the body, an erotic massage is the perfect forum
for finding those particular spots and increasing the overall
pleasure of your sexual encounter.You dont need to master any
techniques such as Shiatsu or Reflexology in order to give a
good massage.All thats required is the willingness to find
out what feels good to your partner.
Here are 10 Steps to follow in Giving An Erotic
Massage that she wont forget:
1. Set the Mood. Soft lighting, scented candles,
incense and romantic music all add to the erotic atmosphere
you want to maintain. You may wish to turn off the phones.
Keep your lubricants and towels nearby.
2. Find an area for your partner to lie down and get
comfortable
whether its a massage table, a blanket on the
floor, or on the bed. She may want a pillow under her head or
under her hips.
3. Choose your lubrication. You should only use a
water-based lubricant to avoid any vaginal infections (but
avoid any lube containing Nonoxynol-9). You may wish to use an
oil that has a sexy scent, such as lavender or orange blossom.
4. Once youve chosen your lubrication, apply some to your
hands and rub them together. This will warm both the oil and
your hands, making the sensation more pleasurable for your
partner.
5. Have her lie face down, naked. Relax her body and
massage her by performing these Basic Massage Strokes.
Sweeping Strokes: Best for massaging large body parts, such as
the back. With open hands, use long, sensuous, sweeping
strokes. Detailed Strokes: For smaller, more complicated
parts, such as the shoulders, hands and feet. Movements should
be firm and short. Avoid massaging areas where the bone is
close to the skin.
Kneading: A smooth move for the hips and buttocks or
other fleshy parts. Use the thumbs and forefingers of both
hands to rhythmically squeeze and release the skin.
Circling: A great basic stroke for such areas as the
back and shoulders. Place both hands palm down and move them
in opposing circles. Lean onto your hands when you want to add
pressure.
You should start with a gentle back rub. Use Circling
motions on the shoulder area. Move to the midback and use
Sweeping strokes, letting the flats of your thumbs massage the
spine. Finish off by Kneading her buttocks.
6. Massage her neck. Put a little oil on your hands and
place them so that your fingers are pointing downward at the
top of her chest and the flats of your thumbs are touching the
back of her lower neck. Draw your hands outward over the
shoulders and slide them around underneath the neck
7. Have her turn over. Massage her chest first by
sliding the palm of your right hand diagonally across her
right breast toward her left shoulder, then doing the same
thing on the left side. Repeat 6 times on each side.Splash
some oil and using the tip of your index finger, trace a
spiral on her breast. Start on the outer edge and slowly make
your way to the nipple.
8. Move to the abdomen and use soothing strokes. Then
massage her arms and hands, slowly gliding down to her legs.
You can brush the genitals in a teasing fashion, and draw this
out by brushing her inner thighs. This will arouse your
partner, leading to the next stage of erotic massage.
9. Now you can move on to Genital Massage. When
performing this on a woman, you can still use your free hand
to glide over the rest of her body, tease her nipples, massage
her perineum, or caress her face. To begin, go to the clitoris
and, with your lubricated finger, make circles around it
softly and rhythmically. You can gage her reaction (and moans,
hopefully) to determine if you need to move slower or faster.
10. If all is going well, you can slide your
finger into the vagina and make rhythmic gestures.You can also
rotate your fingers inside her vaginal barrel with even
pressure against all areas of it. Be aware that the shape of
the vagina changes as her arousal level increases. Keep
stimulating the vagina and clitoris until she cant take it
anymore!
Of course, she can reciprocate and give you an erotic
massage at this point.In all likelihood though, shes going to
want to get straight to the hot sex.If you did your job
correctly, who can blame her?! |
