How To French Kiss
One of love's most
intimate moments is the French kiss. The French call this the
soul kiss. In the most simplistic definition, it's a kiss
with tongue! Its the easiest way to feel close to someone,
but can also be a huge turn-off if done incorrectly. So what
is the right way?
To start, the mood should be right.
You do not want to stumble over the other person at a local
fast food restaurant and stick your tongue in his or her
mouth. You want to wait for the right time, perhaps after
you're already kissing and start to pull your bodies closer
together.
Always start off with a regular kiss. Then,
slowly start opening your mouth, while still keeping it dry!
Using both of your lips, "hug" her bottom lip and close with
another dry kiss. After a couple of these soft, affectionate
smooches, SLOWLY slide part of your tongue into her mouth. In
order to avoid a potential embarrassment, make sure their
mouth is open before doing this! If she then opens her mouth
more, thats your cue that a more intense French kiss (more
tongue) is OK. If not, just stick to a little bit
of tongue and pull back occasionally to observe his/her
reaction, while still giving him/her little "pecks."
MORE TONGUE: If you're ready for full-on
tongue action, keep a few things in mind that can turn a
memorable kiss into a disaster. One is never let a wad of
saliva accumulate in your mouth swallow it! Two, don't turn
your tongue into a sharp pointed object relax it. Three, move
your tongue on or around your womans tongue. The "dead slug"
thing is a huge turn-off. Now with that in mind, and a good
opportunity, keep sliding more of your tongue into her mouth
until you are completely enveloped in each other. When you
reach this point, try to keep your mouths a little tighter.
This is just a way to avoid a messy or sloppy kiss. Remember;
keep your tongues relaxed, but not your mouths. There's
nothing worse than pulling away and feeling like a large dog
has licked you.
As more opportunities come about, the better a French
kiss will get. It takes time, and a bit of practice, but
it will be easier each time. Don't overanalyze it or stress
too much. Just relax and enjoy the moment!
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