A Little Erotic Talk
The
following excerpt appears in the book, “Talk Sexy To The One
You Love”, by Barbara Keesling:
“Any woman who is lucky enough to know will tell you:
Nothing is more exciting than having the man you love talk
sexy to you. Nothing. The right words at the right time can
start a fire burning inside of her that feels like it will
never go out. It can make her breathless. Insatiable.
Unstoppable. And it can do the same thing for the
man.... Simple sentences such as, "I love to look at
your body," "I want you," "I need you," or "I want to make
love to you" can dramatically change the course of an evening,
and sometimes, the course of an entire relationship. You've
probably thought about saying things like this to your partner
many times, but could you imagine actually doing it?”
Hot talk is a powerful turn-on for many people, and
that’s an excellent reason to use it.It lets you communicate
about sex without sounding too clinical.Communication in that
way can only heighten the level of arousal between a man and a
woman.
In the heat of your seduction, saying the right words
at the right moment can make all the difference in the
world.You must be careful, though.You don’t want to offend
your woman by talking dirty if that’s something that might
turn her off, nor do you want to risk her thinking that you
only want her for sex (even if you do!).What you say depends
on how well you know the woman and what has transpired between
the two of you leading up to this very moment.
Say, for example, it’s your first date and you’ve both
had a great evening together.There is obviously a mutual
attraction.You take her home and the two of you begin
kissing.Still, you’re not sure if she wants to sleep with you
or not.If you don’t know for certain, don’t blurt out
something like “I want to fuck you!”.Instead, say something
romantic that appeals to her ego, like “You are so
beautiful”.That will only make her hotter for you, which could
take you to the next step.
It should be said that there is a difference between
Erotic Talk and “Talking Dirty”.Talking Dirty is a more
advanced form of sexual communication, using words that are
rude, crude and naughty.Best to use this sort of talk when you
KNOW that your partner doesn’t mind it.It can be a great way
to arouse her, but only if she’s not offended or embarassed by
the language.Until you’re comfortable with her (and she with
you), keep your talk erotic, not dirty.As a relationship
develops down the road, you can liven up the bedroom with
whatever hardcore phrases you like.But don’t do it too early
in the relationship… and not the first time you sleep with
her.
If, however, she initiates the dirty talk, then
it’s fairly obvious that she’s not offended using graphic
language.You can then probably say just about anything to her
that you want:“I’m gonna fuck you hard!”, “I wanna taste your
pussy.”,“Yeah, suck my cock.”There’s no limit to the list of
colorful phrases.
The best advice on talking dirty...If it turns her on,
do it!
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