20 Dating Rules For Men
So
you’ve finally worked up the nerve to ask her out… and you’ve
scored a date! Great.But before you plan the “Perfect
Evening”, you’d better review these 20 Dating Rules. These
were suggested by a leading relationship expert:
Don’t surprise her with a movie or meal on the first
date… at least not until you’re absolutely sure what she likes
and dislikes.Suppose you’ve made a reservation at the local
steakhouse, and she’s a vegetarian?Or you take her to see
“Scream 14”, and she hates slasher flicks?
Let the evening go where it goes.Be a gentleman, and be
receptive to her plans and suggestions.
Make sure you’re up on current events and happenings.
Read the paper or watch the news that day so you’ll have
something to discuss with her.On the same subject, don’t just
catch up on the latest Sports News and attempt to charm her
with your knowledge of the NBA… she probably won’t be
impressed.
For Heaven’s sake, look your best. Brush your
teeth, clean your nails, comb your hair, don’t wear shorts and
sneakers… these things SHOULD go without saying.
It may sound cliché, but a gift is always nice.Believe
it or not, women STILL like receiving flowers, candy and all
that stuff.
Don’t be late!Your unpunctuality sets the tone for the
rest of the evening.
Don’t lie.Every little untruth you tell always comes
back to bite you in the ass.By the third or fourth date,
she’ll catch you in one of your little fibs and it could ruin
the whole relationship.
BE YOURSELF! You might get away with acting
differently on your first date.But what are you going to do
down the road when she discovers you’re someone that you’re
not?If a relationship has any chance of working, you both have
to be who you are from the beginning.That’s the only way
you’ll know if you’re compatible.
Be humorous. Women LOVE a man with a
sense of humor.But don’t offend her with some offputting dirty
joke until you’re sure that she likes that sort of thing.
If you find you both have different opinions on matters
(which is inevitable), don’t debate her to the point of
fighting.There’s a fine line between discussing and arguing.
Be sensitive to
her needs.
Be complimentary of her appearance.Very
Important!
Unless she’s an insistent feminist, don’t go
dutch.
Give her your utmost attention and interest.
If
you’re having a good time, let her know it.
If anything
embarassing happens (to her or to you),
don’t make a big
deal out of it.
Don’t make calls on your cell phone
while you’re out with her. Due to our advanced technological
age, we must mention this. Talking on a cell phone is
obnoxious enough in cars, supermarkets, and airports.But
(emergencies aside) phoning somebody else while you’re on a
date with HER is unforgiveable.
Romance her.No, that doesn’t mean slipping your hand under
her bra when you kiss her goodnight (if she places it there,
that’s another matter!). A woman likes to be wined, dined,
appreciated, and feel like she is the “only woman in the
room”. They love going out with a man who’s a real romantic,
so do your best.But don’t rush anything (see the next
tip).
If sex is mutually anticipated and acceptable to both
parties, have fun.But don’t go out with a girl with the sole
anticipation of getting laid.The majority of women are not
looking for “one-nighters”. Don’t try to coax her into sex. If
she’s really attracted to you, it will happen naturally.Maybe
not on the first date, but eventually.
After your evening together is over, don’t lie to anybody
else about the date and what actually happened. It ALWAYS gets
back to the girl! |
